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In reply to Post #72
My phone has a ****dar built in and pings when you post 
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In reply to Post #71
Your never far away 
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In reply to Post #70
Only thing matching that description I know is who I'm replying to
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In reply to Post #69
If she has a big fat hairy arse I would just pass her details onto Braders he would be more than happy to entertain her 
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In reply to Post #67
I'm really not sure how you do this, but Mike from Quebec?
Give it a rest, move on and stop ****ing trolling me all over the internet.
Catching me on a carp forum, when I was highlighting a problem that has nothing to do with you?
You really are a very sick lady
Jon
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In reply to Post #65
Not true my fermented maize is just as important 
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In reply to Post #1
losing a family down to carp 
what a sad thing
family comes before EVERYTHING
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In reply to Post #63
Your ex husband probably says the same
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I'm separated from two long term partners, never married, although despite my fishing obsession, it wasn't exactly down to fishing being the cause.
My first ex suffered severe post natal depression, so I quit work to look after her and my daughter. At weekends I needed time to me, so I would fish Friday until Sunday morning as she would go to her mothers for the weekend. Sunday I would get home and take her and my daughter out.
Unfortunately my ex's depression and coping by drinking turned into becoming an alcoholic. I tried to help her beat both problems, but got to the stage she moved back to her parents where she was drinking every night.
For a few years I looked after my daughter myself around my work and fishing, Shauna would come with me on school holidays, and I would only fish overnight when she was off school.
I met my second Mrs when I was a mature student at college, where I had saved up to fund myself through an HND while working most nights.
When I left college I got into managing bars, restaurants and hotels as well as keeping up some of my doorwork and self-employed bits, but working away for 3/4 days to earn better money than locally put a strain on her and our two children.
In the end my Ex said it was work locally or split up, but even working locally didn't keep her happy, so we did break up, and that was a train wreck with two children involved.
Now I'm happy being single as unless you are in the hospitality industry you don't understand the shifts
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I have 2 kids of 3 years and 5 months and since the first kid pretty much all my fishing is overnighters. Once a week if it's possible. During vacation time possibly more. Some times I take my oldest with me partly to aid my girlfriend but also since he really loves it.
Losing the family because of too much absence is not an option for me.
However I also think that if you can't solve problems you have it's not better for the kids to live in a toxic home environment anyway and then a split is a better solution.
I must say though, I work in the angling business and meet a lot of people that fish and I have heard so many times, people actually advising others to split in order to have the kids only half the time hence gaining more fishing time.
That crap pisses me off so bad. With kids comes responsibility. Make sure to take it.
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My mrs of 23 years never had a problem with me going. Never wanted to do longer than 12 hours at a time. 2 kids, one with special needs. Overnights or short days when they are at school. Always encouraged her to go out and do her activities, especially during the bait making years.
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